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Here are some tips to remember from the PMP prep course the next time you find yourself seeing a co-worker pack up for the final time.
- Don’t Lie
Working with certain folks isn't always enjoyable.’ If the person departing is someone you dislike, keep in mind the old adage, "If you can't think of anything kind to say, don't say anything at all." It's considerably easier to speak all kinds of lies at times.' Instead of making anything up, if you have to say something, try this: I really wish you well.
May God bless and keep the Czar far away from here!' declared the Rabbi in Fiddler on the Roof when asked for a blessing for the Czar. It's fine to be relieved that someone is leaving your life.
- Remember Successes
This is an excellent chance to reflect on actual project and task accomplishments made possible by the departing employee's efforts.
- What do you Admire’?
Take the time to come up with one or two attributes or talents that you actually admire about the individual, as taught in the PMP prep course.' It's best to tell them face to face and provide instances of how you've seen them in action.' If speaking this out loud makes you uncomfortable (men, this is intended for you), it's much more effective to write a private email directly to the individual.
Don't be shocked if an email like this is kept for years.' The majority of individuals rarely receive genuine and favorable comments out of the blue.
- Offer to be a Reference
Offer to deliver a glowing recommendation if you respect the individual and feel you can.' Even better, compose a paragraph or two and send it to them via email or LinkedIn.
- Feel free to make a Clean Break
If that's what you desire, feel free to make a clean split.' Don't hint anything to the contrary if you don't want to keep in touch.' It's a little world - but it's also a very huge one.' Unless you go out of your way to see them, you might not see them again.
- Make a Point to Stay Connected
If you like someone and want them to stay in your life, make it a goal to do whatever you can to keep them in your life.
- Make a commitment to meet for lunch in two weeks and stick to it.
- Include them in your Twitter and instant messaging accounts.' Make them one of the individuals you communicate with on a frequent basis.
- Inviting them to dinner or drinks within the next month is a good idea.
Transitioning connections from work to other aspects of our lives takes some effort, but it is possible.' But it isn't going to happen on its own.
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